If your SO said he only wants two kids including the one that doesn't live with y'all from a previous relationship, would you think that's unfair to you if you want more than one child for yourself?

Question

My SO said he only want two kids including the one he has. I told him that's not fair to me since that's not my child and he doesn't/won't ever live with us anyway. He said his child still counts...but it doesn't to me, I don't have any kids yet.

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I believe that agreeing on how many children you want up front is important. My husband and I agreed on this subject before we were engaged. I feel like if you are not on the same page one of you will end up resenting the other.

Answer

You have a right to talk to him about this and if you really want more kids and he doesn't then you can get anonymous sperm

If your SO said he only wants two kids including the one that doesn't live with y'all from a previous relationship, would you think that's unfair to you if you want more than one child for yourself?

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