Help please! 😭

justjazzymari

So me and my boyfriend have been together for almost 2 years now. I love him with all my heart and he truly adores me. I'm a virgin and so is he, when we were at our 4th month dating stage we started doing sexual acts.. oral and slight fingering pretty much. But even the fingering hurts. Since we've hit a year about a while ago.. we've been trying to have sex but it's been difficult. Our first time trying to have sex was truly painful, I was wet and slightly relaxed but it wouldn't go in and it felt like he was splitting me. So we decided to use lube to make things go easier but that doesn't seem to help. It's like there's a wall inside my vagina or something that's stopping him from inserting anything into me. Just recently we tried to have sex, we tried missionary and me sitting on it, and it was extremely painful when he put the tip in so we just stopped. Is there something I'm doing wrong? Do I have to go to the doctor? Please help me out with some tips or something.. thank you😞