Am I mean?

Question

Was it mean of me to not invite my fiancé to my first prenatal visit? I was just worried and wanted to make sure I could confirm that my peanut was growing big and healthy before giving him the big news. I was about (7w4d) I'm taking him with me to my second one this Friday in which I will be meeting my high risk OB.. now I feel terrible though.

Answer

No your fine, you didn't want to get him excited until you were sure. The thought of him having a look of sadness on his face if it was a false positive or something would break your heart too. He should understand that. My hubs said he wanted to know right away when I tested positive, he is still kind of in denial and will be until the first ultrasound. Girl I get it - 😉

Answer

Nope. I told my husband he can come to my first OB at 12 weeks but it's not worth it because all they are doing is taking labs and doing a physical. Nothing fun yet

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