am I overreacting?

Chey • Boss wife 👑 Boss mom 👩‍👧
Ok let's start with my husbands bosses wife is trying to go through my husband about talking to me and trying to be my friend and stuff well the thing is she doesn't message me on Facebook or anything she's asks if I read books and stuff to my husband well now she decided to tag me in a page about abortions and miscarriages and well I'm mad because I lost my first daughter 3 years ago and well she knows that, but instead of trying to talk to me on messages or anything she's trying to  talk to me through that or something I really don't know but am I wrong for being upset I think it's disrespectful and a terrible way to try and get close to someone that way.... am I overreacting???