Am I over reacting or is it normal to feel like this?

Elizabeth

So it's pretty self explanatory, he was stressing out about school and work and I tried to talk to him about it last night but anytime I do he just pushes it off leaving me no choice but to be passive with these topics. And since he stayed up so late I guess he decided to talk to a friend of his. Don't get me wrong, I'm happy that he's okay now and that he talked it out but I really don't get why it couldn't have been me. And I'm feeling pretty upset/annoyed, but I don't want to tell him anything because I know it will just start something and I don't want him to get mad/stressed but he just was last night.

Keep in mind I've been with this guy almost 3 years, I'm not gonna break up with him because this has only been happening for the past few months. Just looking for advice. Thanks.