I'm new to tampons, I get them in easily, but getting them out is a pain in the a$$!

There is a piece of skin right near my vaginal opening that wraps on the top of the tampon whenever i try to take them out.

I'm also seeing that my tampon string is filling with blood?

I'm scared to put a regular in (currently on lite) because it's so painful to get lites out so i can't even imagine with regulars!

HELP! I really need to be able to be leak free and have an easy in/out process as i'm going to crystal clear punta cana in 2 DAYS and I can't be leaking or be experiencing this much pain :(