Is it just me or are dilation checks painful?!?

Gabby

Ok I am sorry but is it just me or when they check your cervix does it hurt like a b**** or what?!? Also I've been swabbed for water break and i am so swollen down there the nurse put the swab up my urethra instead of vagina, and I pled when I peed because of it!! Who else hurts so bad down below?!? Anything I can do or tell the nurse so it isn't so PAINFUL?!?