I am at my wits end. Long story short. I have been in a very toxic relationship for two and a half years and we now have a 7 month old daughter. We have been threw hell and back, we always kiss and make up but days later, we're fighting all over again. Now I knowwww this isn't normal behavior but he's having a hard time agreeing to it. And maybe just once if other people express how it is not normal behavior he'd at least see it somewhat where I'm coming from.

So. This morning. He was asking me to turn my location on. I told him no, I was at work he knows I'm at work and I'm not going to keep enabling unhealthy behaviors like that when we're trying to make a new start and new relationship.

Well. Typical boyfriend shit, all hell broke lose and he BLOWS up at me for not doing what he says. So he takes my belongings I left at home that are important to me and that I pay for just to unable me or get to me.

Now his reasoning behind it, is that he works 5 days a week for my daughter, himself and I. And that because he does "everything" for me, I should pretty much do the shit he asks.

I am tired of being controlled. I am tired of enabling him and this unhealthy things in our relationship on both ends. I know have to get a safe for my shit because whether we're together or not my shit goes missing every fight and I am tired of having nothing because of him. He has my id. Hidden from me. But he can go to bars with his friends when we fight.

Am I in the wrong? Or Is he.