Orgasm through penetration.

So me and my boyfriend have been dating for a year and he's never made me cum through penetration. I've rubbed my clit while fucking and that's made me cum but never just from his dick. Idk. I really love him and cumming isn't something I need when we fuck. I get so many other pleasures from doing it. But it's reached the point where his masculinity is at jeopardy. He feels like "he isn't a man" and "I'll leave him soon enough if he never can make me cum."Has anyone else had this problem? Is something wrong with me? Is there something we both should try doing? Neither of us like using toys and I still live at home so it's kindof hard to have wild or at all sexy sex. We usually sit in my hot ass room in my tiny ass twin bed and do our thing. I told him I can try and teach him more what feels good in hopes maybe I can cum but honestly it upsets him so much when he cums but I haven't. It makes me feel like I have a deadline.