I'm 7 months pregnant and I have come to the realization that my SO will only initiate sex when he is intoxicated and it's usually only oral sex. We literally have sex once a month if you can even call it that. I am getting very frustrated because I'm getting fat and feeling less attractive I feel like he's losing interest in me. He keeps saying that's not the case but he's stressed about his finances but does that mean u have to ignore me. We seem to argue daily and I'm worried that we will soon part ways after the baby comes because I feel as if I have to focus on my son and not this damn relationship. I love him dearly I've been more than patient with everything considering that I bring home the thicker slices of bacon. I've given him job leads on things outside of his trade and h refuses to even follow through. What good is living your dream as a mechanic when you only get paid on commissions in a shop that doesn't care about your true worth and it's not like he is at some hole in the wall shop hell he works for NTB. But I always got some attitude when I can't seem to save any money or do what I want because there's always a concern that he may not have all his half of the rent I just don't want to do this anymore and the lack of intimacy just adds fuel to the fire