I wanted to pick a name sooner rather then later, especially when I knew what gender he was. My husband is laid back and didn't want to think about names so soon. I finally got him to make a list of names he liked and I made a list I liked. Then I combined the lists and we each took out the names from the big list we didn't like. Then went over and took out names that we couldn't imagine calling somebody or somehow just didn't work. We got it down to about 10 names. There was one name he kept going back to. So I said ok, what are some good middle names. I showed him a few and again there was one he found that he liked and I liked it too. So we have a name for our boy of Ronan Kai.