SO my boyfriend I love him dearly... but I gotta say, we're both protective of each other. So my history with guys isn't the greatest but my current boyfriend I'm planning on keeping for the long haul and We've talked about it and everything

But he works with a lot of girls. And there's this one girl who has become really really close to him. And she even will say that he's her best friend and he helps her with life problems and everything. That's okay and all but I still get really jealous because they close the shop with each other ( there are other people there too but still) he's always on her story, people ask me if me and him are okay and if they're together now. Like it's annoying.

When I was applying for jobs he would get super annoyed and almost not talk to me if I would apply somewhere where a guy might work. So he was listing places hat were "okay" for me to work at. So I got a job with minimal guys and everything it doesn't pay great and so I was asking him if I could look other places and he still doesn't care, I can't work somewhere that guys might work at.

His reasoning is that guys are stronger and if they wanted to hang out with me I wouldn't say no or that I would be easier to take or whatever but it's okay for him because he's a guy. So calling all feminists!!! Help me come up with a valid argument or help me bring up the fact that it's not fair lol

I don't know if any of this made sense but help me 😂