Ok. Sorry for the long winded story but any advice is greatly appreciated!

I'm bisexual. I'm attracted to girls more on a physical level. I think my boyfriend is pretty cute but that's cause I love him. He knew where my stance was pretty early on.

We don't want kids. Like period ever. So we are pretty religious about birth control. I was originally on the pill and he was using condoms. Problem was he couldn't feel anything so there was a lot of coitus interruptus due to something going a bit limp. I went on the implant 4 weeks ago and we've had sex once since then and he hasn't shown any interest. He slaps my butt but that's the norm. I do it to him too.

So I need to initiate. I have no clue how to be seductive I've never needed to be. I've never needed to initiate anything before.

I don't think he's uninterested. He's extremely respectful and he had at one point decided I wasn't really interested in sex and was prepared to go without for the majority of the time. He's 31 so it's not like his hormones are saying 'Bone, bone, bone' I know he's not cheating. He literally doesn't have time to do so.

Please? How the heck do I fix this?