coping with daycare!!!! please respond

Someone please help me.  I just started working full time and I am not coping well.   My daughter is going to day care 3 days a week and With my step mom 2 days.  I can't do it. I just can't.  How do y'all do this????  She's doesn't take a bottle-I've tried literally everything.  She doesn't nap well with me or my husband.  I am SO angry now and upset and I just can't deal with this.  When I get home I have to cook but I can't cook because My 8.5 month old needs me - she's hungry and tired.  My husband does help but he can't do everything either.  She doesn't take ANY BOTTLE.  ISNT EVEN TAKING IT AT DAYCARE   Day care sucks because she isn't getting enough attention like I do.  I can't afford a nanny so that's out of the question.  I'm in a shitty situation and am not coping well.  I even yelled at my baby tonight because I was trying to cook 😱. I'm taking meds for depression/anxiety going to a doctor isn't going to help me.   I feel like something is totally wrong and I can't fix it    Please someone tell me everything will be okay.   Please!