Anal?!?

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so my boyfriend wants to try anal but i've never done it before however we've done a lot of other stuff, what do i do? how does it feel??🙄

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I personally love anal. FIRST time advice: LUBE is a must (silicone based so it doesn't absorb as quickly). make sure you're really turned on first (make out, oral, fingering, ect. whatever it takes. I always end up doing it before my first orgasm because then it makes me want it more. if you both are comfortable with it, have him insert a finger or 2[with lube!!]to get it started). my favorite starting position is the spooning position because it doesn't require a lot of energy from either of you, you are in control, and you can relax your bum. which brings me to the next tip...RELAX!! I cannot stress that enough!! don't focus on what you think it is going to feel like and just enjoy the moment! (this is also why I like to be super turned on). from here I just grind my butt against him until he is fully in. and then moving positions is easier and such after you have been in this position a little while. i recommend letting him cum in you. I love the feeling so much it actually mskes me cum. from here it's just whatever feels good for you two. i always have a towel under me or near me for pull out.. never know! yes, there might be some poop or brown cum on his penis when you pull out. duh. you're in the butt.if you're afraid of bodily fluids or poop,you might not be ready for anal.

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USE LUBE!!!! I cant stress that enough! If you don't use lube, it will hurt like the devil. I use silicone lube, and the more you use the better you feel I've found. Also make sure he knows that he needs to go slow, and listen to everything you say! He needs to promise to listen to every instruction you give. Anal can feel really amazing, but only if he listens to what you say and goes at your pace. Start with a finger, with lube! Again, lube is super important. Your anus won't get wet like your vagina will. But as long as you use lube, and start small with fingers, anal can be a really great experience. You should also try to relax, and breathe deeply when its happening. Tensing up can make it hurt, and you could get injured. He can help you relax too! Kisses and soft touches will help your body let go of any tension :)

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Definetly is lube. That's extremely important. I personally didn't like anal, felt like I was pooping backwards

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I'm excited to answer this question. I'm also VERY new to anal. So far I've only done it twice. I read on another post here on Eve that the best position to do it in is missionary with the girl on the bottom. My boyfriend is an ass man and has ALWAYS wanted to do anal, but I was too afraid. But after reading that post, I decided to give it a try, and it actually worked!!! We took it very slow and used lots of lube. I was able to take the whole thing on my very first try! (And his dick is like 7.5-8 inches). I've found that any type of anal play is easier for me when I'm very horny, because its easier to relax. While he was inside, he used his fingers to rub my clit & finger me, so I was getting stimulation in all areas. It was actually pretty pleasant. After you get past the "WTF WTF WTF" stage its not nearly as bad as you imagine it. And being able to fulfill one of his biggest fantasies made me feel very sexy and freaky, which made it more enjoyable for both of us. Give it a try. Just remember to use lots of lube! And even if he thinks its enough, its up to you! He can't feel whats going on for you, so make sure you're comfortable. Good luck!!

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The first time I ever did anal was HORRIBLE . that was with my ex . My next time was with my now husband . After I had my first son . We used baby oil lol . I loveeeeee anal now . For some reason its more passionate to me . I can only do anal if I'm really turned on . If I'm not it hurts like hell

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dont let him cum up there it gives you the shits (not nice) 😣

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Hurts @ first so use lots of lube. Try other things first like anal beads that help it open up & him fingering you in the ass. If you aren't comfortable, you're going to tense up, & it will definitely hurt! If you can completely relax, I swear to God, it is the best thing I've ever tried! I said I'd never do it but now I love it! Don't start off having sex with anal. 4play is a must & have sex vaginally first. You need to be turned on so you're off is relaxed. But if he goes back & forth to each hole, make him clean his dick off in between bc you don't want any kind of infection. Need to talk more about it? Email me @ lafro@icloud.com    Anytime!!

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this is suppose to work well im going to be buying once my boyfriend and i start having anal

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I love anal. here's what i did. I'm a big freak so I had to make sure I was clean   so I douched it out in the shower.  It's tricky because you can't put to much douch in or there's a big mess. after that he coached me for a little while. being calm and not tense is the key to it and lube. he ate my booty first for a warm up. I love feeling his tongue in my a$*. We used plenty of lube and he took it slow and made sure I was comfortable or the whole time. ever since then I love anal with him. It's still a little scary because his junk is so big but we use ALOT of lube.

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It can be tight 
It can hurt a bit 
Use a condom 
Use lube if you need to

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