Overbearing parents

I’m 21 and they say I’m an adult but still can’t do many things. Like go out at night, parties, drink (at home), get a piercing and many others. I really just go to community college, work, and home. That’s just it.

And it’s not like I can just move out. I don’t even have friends I can go with. The few I do have all live with they’re parents and no car but with a job situation too.

There’s like no apartments where I live out in the country. Nearest town is like 20 minutes away. I would have to live in a motel. Everyone is in a house. I have no money. But I still have a job. Then I don’t have car I drive my parents car to work. How would I get anywhere?? There’s no public transportation anywhere for anyone unless you’re in school.

I just wish they would let me be more adult. You can’t teach me everything. I have to learn myself. And let me get out my crazy teenager days out of me because none of that ever started. I’d be the one out there clubbing at 35 because I couldn’t do all things I wanted when I was younger.

I don’t want to disrespect my parents and just do everything anyway but it’s so frustrating.

I’m so sheltered I’m just now learning how to do laundry, pump gas, and things of that nature.

Luckily I’m going away to college. Looks like I’ll be winging real adult life out there....