so, this is stemming from a conversation i had with a person i work with last night. we were talking about our families and someone how got on the topic and he goes "honestly if it came down to me or my wife, i would choose me because my kids need me" and another woman goes "they need their mom, too" and he said "i think my sons need me more." what are your opinions on this? personally, i think they need both if there is an opportunity for both to be there, but with that being said there are a lot of wonderful single parents that are killing it.