so I'm 23 now I've had 4 partners and I've never had an orgasm...

when I was younger I wasn't sure if I had or not but my friends said if I didn't know then I hadn't!

I'm not sure why I haven't, maybe its all in my head and I'm over thinking it now!

also I was on the contraceptive pill up until recently and I think that may have lowered my sex drive? is that a thing? I haven't had sex since coming off the pill so I dont know if it'll be any different but I can feel my sex drive increasing again...

has anyone else had this problem?