So me and my husband have lived together for just under a year. I love him, he's my world. He's military and works crazy long hours (12-15hour days.) when he gets home he doesn't feel like doing anything, which is completely understandable! But really annoying when I've been stuck in the house all day and just want to go out. Yesterday was an off day, he didn't have to work. But we did have a doctors appointment, our closest friends also had a doctor appointment so we gave them a lift. While there one of our friends had to be admitted to A&E.; So we dropped them off and drove the 2 hours home. We were on hold until our friendshusband needed to be picked up, my husband left to pick him up at 6 and got home just after 10. This morning he was out the door at 8 to give him a lift back to the hospital, he just came home (it's now 12) to give me a kiss and he's back to the hospital to pick both our friends up. Now don't get me wrong, obviously I'm more than willing to help! But today and yesterday were our only days together this week. All I wanted was to spend the day with him, find out if we're able to move house and possibly get donuts. I'm 30 weeks pregnant and want donuts. He went to base this morning and was supposed to talk to the housing office to ask all my questions, but gets a text from our friends asking to be picked up so he runs to them. But I know as soon as I ask him to do something for me he's all of a sudden too tired and doesn't want to drive the half hour into the city to get dunking donuts. He'd drop everything and go to the moon for his friends, but for me he can be bothered to do anything! I can't get to the housing office myself because I don't drive, and I need my questions answered before I can start preparing to move! But my husband doesn't understand why I want him to do it now and not next month! We live overseas and I don't speak the language or drive. Am I being pathetic or am I rightfully annoyed? . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Update: so he gets home last night around 5pm with a big box of donuts, bought down the pillows and blanket from upstairs and cuddled while watching Arrow. He is an amazing man. 😍