So I've recently been trying after a miscarriage in 2014 and I was wondering if anyone else has decided whether or not to announce until after the 12 week mark? The first time, I kept it private, only telling a few family members and friends. I miscarried at 9 weeks. I felt like I hadn't even had a chance to be excited or happy before it all got ripped away from me. I have come to terms with my MC, I truly feel like it was God's timing, it pushed me to finish school when I wasn't taking it seriously and I lost 100 lbs. I've heard a lot of other women say to not let the loss steal your joy from your next pregnancy. I feel as though when I get pregnant again, I don't want to have to spend my first 12 weeks of pregnancy in fear, I want to scream from the roof tops! What are you thoughts?