So.. this is a long story ..

In hs I went to all girls priv catholic right across the boy school but I was so quiet I never really go out anywhere ... in college I wanted it to change ... I've never had a bf before so like I have no experience in any relationship ....Ok soo... to get straight to the point I met this guy off tinder ... in like dec after Christmas.. we went on 2 dates and then he went back to school in AZ we have been talking like regular convo on what goes on in our week maybe once a week or 2 -3 times a month it really just depends..

We both get back to our home state and go on a few dates ...then about 2 weeks ago something happened ..

we've gone out on many dates and just hung out at his house a lot ... I know his family loves me but he's only met my parents once for a few mins ...I have asked him before what are we or what do I mean to you - he always goes around or throws it back to me and doesn't give a clear answer... a few weeks later I let him take my first time... I honestly wanted to wait but things just kinda happened... I'm not on the pill and he didn't have condoms.. it was stupid of me to let it go but it just happened .. the next time I went over I didn't really wanna do it - but it happened again ..the same day I thought we were like not gonna it for a second time bc I honestly couldn't take it again then we did it again and I honestly didn't want to I kinda just let it happen even tho I told him I don't think I can do this ....the only time he calls me babe or baby is when we do it --..he still has never defined this / called me his gf and he says it's not a fling otherwise I wouldn't have met his family ... I texted him last night asking him again what are we - a couple ? Dating ? What am I to you ... he left me on read and now I'm just really confused and upset and I can't tell if it's worth letting this last any longer bc when I go back to school I'll be gone for almost a whole year out of my home state so I don't know if he will ever see me.. he replied like 1 day later ( see pic) and like I just got kinda upset and haven't talked since bc everyone says he's using me and I should end it now but I have like the most strict parents every that will wanna know why we broke up things like