Do you guys always tell your man if someone hits on you? I mean,it may not always be a huge elaborate story,but I often find myself feeling obligated to tell my boyfriend each time I get hit on. In all honesty I think that I do that because I've been cheated on & lied to a lot with my exes, so now I feel like I should always tell my current boyfriend about things like that. Also,another part of it may be to try to "prove my worth" because in my past relationships I wasn't necessarily seen worthy of love,honesty,& commitment. I can start to tell that sometimes it agitates my boyfriend when I constantly tell him things of my past relationships & when other guys hit on me. I don't try to do it,but it comes up like word vomit. Any recommendations or comments? I'm in need of actual healthy advice,no negativity.