I don't mean nice guys. My husband is a nice guy, my father is a nice guy. Almost every women I know is in a relationship with a nice guy, but I don't think I've ever met a good man. A nice guy goes to work, he'll help out when you ask, make you feel special every once in a while, but when push comes to shove he is really just about himself and he secretly hopes you will handle everything. Nice guys are not super available emotionally, they stop trying to get to know you more intimately once you've been together for a while, they don't want to genuinely help ( he'll help but it's on his terms example: he'll clean, but it will be the bare minimum, or he'll only change the baby during a time out of his game or if it's paused after you tell him to repeatedly.) Most men now a days are nice guys and we women accept it under the guise of boys will be boys or that's how all men are. I just wish there were more good men. Men who want to clean up after you cooked so you could get some rest, men that notice the baby need to be changed so they just do it, men that hear the baby cry at 430 am and wake up on there own, take care of the baby and don't except a fucking medal for doing so. Men whose masculinity isn't so fragile, men that aren't a little homophobic or sexist. Men who realize they aren't helping their wives by cooking, cleaning, or taking care of the baby their just doing something that needs to be done for the household to function. Men that don't act like over grown boys making us schedule our lives around video games, basket ball games or football. Men that don't turn their wives into their mothers or their daughters and actually let us be partners to them. idk maybe it's just me do y'all know any good men??