First off, hi everyone I am new I just got this app, I am so happy to have it!! I would like to vent a little and get everyone's opinions on this little story about an ex of mine aha 💁 anyways to the story now lmao:

My ex boyfriend, David and I, dated for 8 months in 2016, and the first couple months were great, we started dating just before school started again, so the first two weeks we had some free time together before we had to go back to school so we were pretty happy about that. I don't wanna say I didn't have faith in the relationship, but it was my first real relationship, like we were kissing and hanging out all the time, but I didn't think we were gonna last that long cause it was my first actual relationship like that. Especially since we lived only four blocks from each other. Anyways, yeah the first couple months were great. But I had to move schools, same town but different schools. We got out at different times. But we always made it work so we could hangout. I would ride the bus to the elementary school on our side of town where we lived. And he would pick me up there and walk me home. And either we would hangout or we wouldn't. Depending on how my mom felt (his mom is in jail so his grandma raised him, but she works graveyard shift so it didn't matter what he did I guess..) so those times went smoothly, then about three months into the relationship.. we had sex. He took my virginity, I know, it was a dumb idea, but it happened, and after that, I decided to talk to his grandma about coming to my school so we could be together in school. She agreed and soon he was in my school and everything seemed to be great! But I became a little clingy, and that, he didn't like, of course. We started arguing because I was always jealous or something, even if he hung out with his best friend, I was always jealous, but I mean, i wasn't the only one. We would always spam each other when one didn't reply within ten minutes.

So, after he moved to my school, I had a best friend, her name is Tammy, we always hangout, we always talked. We went to the mall for her birthday even, we all had this job at a garden so we earned money to go to the mall and buy things. So yeah. Besides the whole clingy thing with david, I thought everything was so great. I was so happy. I always thought I could fix my relationship with David. But one day, I went to hug Tammy, after school and she was holding her phone in her hands and I could have sworn I saw his name at the top of the screen and she sent heart eyes to him, I don't know if it was about something else but I instantly thought he was cheating on me with her and I confronted him, he wouldn't show me his conversation and when he did it was deleted. I wish it wasn't like it was, but it was. I don't wanna say it was the fact that he took my virginity why I was so clingy, but I know it was.

One day, he was having me read a conversation between him and his friend Calle, I can't remember what it was they were talking about but, j decided to mess with him and read the other conversations with her, he was aging he had girlfriend problems, and that's when i said, should we talk about us. And once we got to my house, we decided to call it done. He broke up with me, it was the worst pain ever. But it had to happen. It was so much pain anyways, arguing. But we remained friends.

There was a time when we were working and he was to walk up a trial to the garden we worked at, he decided to put his phone in my back pack and we ended up being behind. Oh well. We made it anyways.. once our shift was over my ride showed up and I left. He wanted to walk home an I told him to message me when he got home. It took me about an hour to get home cause my aunt had to do some errands while she was in town cause she lived out of town. And once I got home I had no messages from him so I messaged him a couple times.. and every message I sent I heard a vibrate. So I called his phone and discovers his phone is still in my bag. So I hung it up and started walking to his house. I noticed a message pop up... it was a message from Tammy saying "you home yet babe" oh. I was PISSED. In messaged her and said "care to explain?" With a pic attached of the message. Her excuse was "my cousin Courtney was on my kik and messaged the wrong person. After that I walked back out and saw David was walking up my street obviously remembering his phone and I confronted him about it and he had no clue what happened. I didn't believe it. But I let it go deciding I didn't want drama being so tired from work. A few weeks later my school had a small field trip to a college tour and david, Tammy and I decided to go. Once we got there David split ways and Tammy did a couple mins later with someone else. So it was me and her sister Chrissy. At the end, Chrissy asked me to fill up her water so she could talk to someone. So I went to find a bathroom and I came back and ran to the bus.. to see David and Tammy siting next to each other. I got mad and said "really so you guys split up to hangout huh?" And blah blah. Then they started to ignore me and put headphones in. After a while

I calmed down and we all started talking again. After the whole day I got home and was on my phone and Tammy said she didn't wanna Be my friend anymore and she didn't want the drama after that. I was hurt. But David was still my friend. The next day at school David kept following her around like a damn puppy. That's when I knew. They are dating. I didn't say anything but me and Tammy became friends again and after awhile I asked her. She said that they were saying but they decided to break up because they didn't want to be hurting me. Couple weeks later my school had a block party the first one we've ever had. And I asked David if he wanted a ride to the block party. He said no because his cousin was taking him. So I said OK that's fine. My mom had an evil idea because him and Tammy were hanging out. She decided to follow them around and listen to their conversations. I didn't want to. So I went to a glass mosaic thing. And I guess somehow she knew what was going on and they passed me and she was all ranting about my mom and David goes "it's OK babe "so I got up out of my chair and Ran to my mom crying. And that's when my mom had enough. She ran into my school and started screaming at David and Tammy calling tell me the B word and All kinds of things. Tammy's sister was swearing that they aren't dating. But they were.

This year at the beginning of the year me and Tammy and decided to try being friends again. And I hated it because she would always text me when David wasn't texting her to see if he was talking to me. I don't remember who but one of us decided to not be friends anymore. I haven't talked to her since.

I still miss him I will always love him no matter what. We are still friends, David and I, Tammy still hates me with a passion because of it. But I mean, with David, I would rather be friends than hate each other. Especially with all the history we have. We still argue here and there, but we always work it out.

The end. Thank you for reading this.

My question to you: What's your opinion on this story? I would really like to know how to get over someone who took your virginity. Or lose the attachment I still have. 😒thank you!