So tell me how in a relationship of almost 4 damn years you can just lose feelings in a snap. I got dump lastnight as he is still calling me baby, babe, and still telling me he loves and cares for me, but he hasn't had the same feelings for me for the past 3 months, and he doesn't want to try to fix anything. Like what the fuck, I don't get it. We were talking babies and marriage like 2 weeks ago, why?? So give me your best advice of getting over your EX because I can't with him anymore.