about virginity...

hi im 16 and from turkey, first of all i have to say that i am very scared. i am still virgin but i want to have a sex with my partner. (SORRY FOR MY ENGLISH, TRANSLATE HELPS ME LOL) in turkey having a sex with someone before marriage is very shame, but not for me. they think sexuality is not shame when you married. and i get bored, because i want to have sex! im afraid that ill get hurt while having my first sex, can u guys explain how it was feels? thanks a lot (sorry again for my english)