Trouble in paradise and 12W

My husband and I have been married for 5 years now, he was in the military previously and was deployed often when he got out he did not work for a while and I supported us, a few years ago we bout our first house. I had been asking for babies since the beginning but he always had an excuse (after the military or when we get a new car or have a house or when I get a raise) all things have happened and I got pregnant. I told him and he was not happy and I expected that even though it hurt my feelings. After he had along conversations with me about how if I was not pregnant we would be getting a divorce. We have had trouble in the past but I had no idea he was feeling that way. I told him he would have to earn back my love and he said he would. It's been a month since the conversation and he literally has done nothing for me. To the point of I was craving some food ant about 8pm and he refused to go get me some. I don't know how to feel except unwanted and unloved. I just keep quite and remember that I creat my own happiness but it's tough and I'm just so emotionally tired and drained. Any advice?