A little back story. My boyfriend and I have been together for almost a year. We already know we want to have married and have kids. We had a whole plan to how our lives were going to work out. We truly love each other more than anything and do anything for each other. He's really my other half and best friend and when we first got together I was very very sick with my Crohn's disease, he stayed by my side the whole time when he didn't have to (I mean he just started dating me who wants to be a with a sick girl?) well that's how he knew I was the one. I was put on medication that I was told was hard to conceive on and my tests results showed I was infertile at the moment but it was normal and once I got better I could conceive.

 Fast forward a few months later. My boyfriend just graduated from the police academy, got a great job. I'm finishing my bachelors by the spring and went back to work because I was feeling great. Easter Sunday comes along. And yeah.. we conceived a beautiful little girl who's due in January. Couldn't believe it but it happened. We ofcourse stressed about it, abortion was an option for him only because he wanted to have a baby at the right time and in his words "give me the world" anytime we talked about it he would cry saying he didn't wanna put me through it. We decided to keep our miracle baby (never thought I'd be able to have a healthy baby if my own because of how sick I was, and keeping her was my plan all along) 

So advice time... I know a lot of people who are truly in love and have a baby before the right time that stay together. I believe we can truly get through this, but money is so so tight right now and at the moment we don't live together. My biggest fear is him resenting me because I made him a father so early (but he's very loving and caring and taking it well)  And we are nevous to tell the rest of the family because we aren't married yet and we are 23 & 24 just getting things together. I just wanted some advice from people who went through this. Thank you ladies 😊