My husband only works 30 hours a week. The rest of his time is spent with his friends and a woman he "used to" have a crush on. When he met another girl (my ex's girlfriend), he was extremely infatuated with her and spent all of his time talking to her. He never tells me what's going on or even when he's leaving. Then he gets angry with me when I'm not interested in having sex. I always made sure he was satisfied before he started doing this and even for a while after, but now I'm not interested at all. He always tells me I'm overthinking things and that I can't feel that way just because we're married. Am I overthinking it?