i just need to vent. my bf and I've been dating for awhile now. we have sex occasionally since we are long distance. the thing is, he always wants to get a hotel or a motel because he can shower right after and etc. (he even has a shower ritual. wash his hands 3 times after touching vaginal or penis area and oral only if he can brush his teeth right after and then go back to sex) even during sex, he puts a towel everywhere, no sex in the sheets because it can get dirty, no pillows. this time I suggested car sex because it's one of my fantasy and he is saying no because he has no place to clean. Why does it frustrate me so much! so many limitations. can't even enjoy sex sometimes! help me out here if you have same problems...