I think I messed things up between my boyfriend (J) and his best friend (S). S has been getting a little more close and hands-on lately. The last few times our group has hung out, he's sat ridiculously close to me, chilled with his arms around me, lifted me up, and just overall different than he normally is. He also commented on one of my Snapchat pictures saying that I was "hot 😍😍😍" and he insisted on it, even though he's been best friends with J for years. Tonight at a party my anxiety got the best of me and I spilled all of this to a friend, who helped me tell J about it. Through the rest of the party, S didn't even look my way and completely ignored me as I left. I texted J and asked if things were alright and his response was "Can we talk more about this in the morning?"

I'm really scared that my paranoid and anxious ass has messed up a friendship that has been around for years, especially before I came into the picture. Thoughts??