Is it him or me ?

Question

How do I tell my boyfriend he doesn't pleasure me the same way I pleasure him?

Answer

Well, this is about what you want and need, it's not about him doing anything wrong. So I definitely would not start out saying what he's doing wrong. I would let him know that you are feeling undesirable in bed because you need a little bit more attention and tell him exactly what you want from him. Tell him exactly how you want him to do it for you. Once you get clear about that, if he ignores your requests or still seems like he doesn't care, then that's the amount of effort he's willing to put in. You either accept that from him, or you move on to someone who can fulfill your needs better.

Answer

Neither of you are in the wrong, you just need to say "babe, that's not working; can you try _______ instead?" and hopefully he takes it well.

Is it him or me ?

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