How often do your husband(SO your living with) and you have sex?

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My husband and I have been marries for 6 years and we don't have sex that much. I have a lot of health issues that have got in the way. He would want to but I wouldn't because I was hurting. Now he rarely tries to have sex with me because he got tried if me saying no. I've had surgeries and lost weight that's helped some. Now that we are TTC we have sex every other day for one or two weeks, which is awesome. I miss how it was when we first started dating we couldn't keep our hands off each other, but I guess after 7 years it's just different..... Anyone else go through something similar?

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End of third trimester and its been a week which in my opinion is too long lol.

I think that he already told you the problem. Sexual rejection is hard to take. You're putting yourself out there and to be shut down for whatever reason is hard. He told you why he doesn't reach out anymore and that will be something you guys have to work through. I'd just bring on the sexy. Wear lingerie and seduce him. Eventually it'll come back :)

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whenever we feel like it lol sometimes its 5 days a week, sometimes is once a month. we dont keep a set number we HAVE to have sex... its just when it feels right

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For us, it varies. It could be every day to once a week. We never go past a whole week w/out it unless I'm on my period 😊

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Usually every day but someTimes if either of us are tired from work or we're just not feeling it we go a few days, it all depends on how we're feeling x

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ever since i found ouy im pregnant its just very dime once a week sometimes once every 2 weeks. im in no mood for love making im just moody atm

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Thanks for all your votes and replies.

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We've been together 6 years and have two kids. I'd say on average we have sex 3 times a week. Sometimes less, sometimes more. We've never gone three weeks with out sex since we've know each other. That's including pregnancies and all that. We both have high drives though, so in the beginning it was daily or more. Now that we have kids and have been together for 6 years 2-3 times a week seems like nothing. The last three days we've had sex every day. One on those days was twice. We rarely have sex on Monday or Tuesdays though because he works 16 hour days those days.

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Now that we have a puppy who cries in her crate if she hears us still awake, we usually just have sex on Saturday and/or Sunday during the day when she's napping lol. I honestly can't remember when we last had sex before bed!

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Pre baby we'd be at it every night with maybe one night break a week lol. After baby (almost 4mo) it's maybe every third or fourth day 😩😂

How often do your husband(SO your living with) and you have sex?

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