I still haven't told my family about this pregnancy and I really don't know how to do it. I live in there second house while in grad school and I do everything im supposed to but since they have helped so much and about a year ago they told me if I get pregnant again I will ruin their lives...I appreciate all the help they have given me and I was on birth control when I got pregnant so I was trying to be responsible. Anyways I was talking about my fiancee and my wedding for next summer on facebook and mentioned a possible date and my dad called me super mad about it. We are planning our wedding on our three year annervarsary and he has been super supportive with everything including with my children I already have. I've also tried telling them I planned it all out but things just aren't going right between first my birth moms funeral, then my brother having a bunch of issues and injuring his knee and then getting jumped every time I plan to tell them something happens. I was going to tell them by I made a photo album which starts with there kids then grand kids and great grandkids and ends with the ultrasound picture with tons of really positive messages and then a letter I wrote out with each of there favorite desserts delivered as well. I am just over feeling like I am 16 with them..I am 27 have a full-time job and am in my masters program with one year until I have my masters in social work.