Help!!! My man's job is killing us all.

Elsie • "If you bring forth that which is within you, what you bring forth will save you. If you do not bring forth what is within you, what you do not bring forth will destroy you."

My man works a job that pays very well, but he absolutely hates it. His work makes him so miserable that he has begun lashing out at home. I feel so bad for him and just wish there is something I could do to help. But I am getting so worn down by his constant moodiness and short fuse. On one hand I feel bad complaining because I get to stay home with my baby which I absolutely love and appreciate, but on the other hand, living with someone who is constantly miserable or angry is so exhausting. I keep reminding myself to act with love, but my patience is wearing thin. Please offer your advice or sympathies if you've been through a similar situation. I just feel emotionally drained from trying to be cheerful and fun (mostly for my son's benefit) while I'm really feeling annoyed and sad.