Today my boyfriend went through my phone and deleted any guy who has ever snap chatted me, and then went through my Facebook friends and took a bunch of guys off of my Facebook. When I realized what he did I was angry and he was asking me why I was so mad and I told him it makes him look controlling and possessive and I won't be with him if he's gonna be like this. Then he asked me when I'm going to go through his friends list and take all the girls he has on off and I told him I wasn't going to because I shouldn't have to and that this isn't how this relationship is going to be. So of course he got mad that I was calling him controlling and possessive and he said that he's not but I no have a feeling that he is slowly becoming that type of person... what should I say to him to make him understand where I'm coming from and why I'm worried.