Ladies who have been in it for the long haul. My SO and I have always had an amazing sex life. Twice a day sometimes where we're really in the mood and all over the place. This last year has changed drastically to maybe twice a month and he never touches me anymore. I bring it up, because it bothers me a lot, I start thinking it's me, or I'm not sure. He tells me it's not and that he's just stressed out right now. Either way, those who've been through a hump like this, what happened? Did you work it out? Feeling insecure. I should add I walked in on him masterbating a few weeks ago after claiming he has no desire for it right now. Makes me feel awful. I asked if we could try new things, since I'm very open to everything, but he said no. I don't know what to do. :/ were all laughs and smiles otherwise.