***UPDATE***

So I ended up taking to my husband about my frustrations. He has been checking but was telling me in such a way that it sounded like his platoon Sargent was chasing him down just to work on it. That was not the case. I feel much better now that I know he is trying to find out because he knows it's important to me. Unfortunately they just let him know that he'll be held over until they figure everything out which could take anywhere from a week to a year. It still will not be accompanied.

***Original Post***

I'm really struggling right now. My husband has transferred from reserve to ng to active in the last 6 years. He's also in AIT because he's in the process of switching his MOS. I'm pregnant. Everyone else in his class has had their post assignments for at least 4 weeks. We still don't have an assignment and their final testing is next week.

My husband has the mindset of just leave it alone and it'll work itself out. I understand that that is how he's dealt with military issues before we got married, if you are single you don't have to worry about moving much more than what you brought with you. That's not the case for families and I have no control over any of this.

Our 2 year wedding anniversary is in two weeks and we don't even know where we'll be by then. I understand the whole hurry up and wait thing. I was raised an army brat myself. But we have a 1 y/o and another on the way and no one else in this program is dealing with these kind of delays. Any advice?