Hey ladies, how did your partner cope with pregnancy after miscarriage?

I'm 4 weeks pregnant & showed him my faint positive tests & he is struggling to show any reaction. He keeps telling me they're too faint to be positive & when I mentioned that he was being very underwhelming he just said 'we can't get our hopes up'.

He was so positive that we would get pregnant straight away & that we wouldn't miscarry again but he seems so detached now it's happened.

I was pretty overwhelmed with my grief during my miscarriage & felt that he saw it as something that happen to me, not something that happened to him. But his lack of reaction is making me question how he is coping & how affected he was by it.

How did the men in your life cope?