Well me and my SO just got some devastating news. His mom had another stroke and is in the hospital. They say that she is on a vinalater and they dont think she is going to make it (brain dead) I really don't know how to process this he is so upset and I am too. I haven't ever lost anybody really close to me. I'm sad about it but I dont know I feel so emotionless sometimes when it comes to death...He lost his younger brother 2 years ago in a car crash...they had to take him off of the vinalater too...he said he cant believe this is goimg to happen twice. His mother never got to meet our son. Me and him have been together for 2 1/2 years and have a 8 1/2 month old son. When his brother passed he was really bad on meth...I guess really depressed and everything...Right now we are in North Carolina and all this when he was on meth and everything was down in Tennessee where his mom is now...he has friends like this guy named joey that I hate so much. Pretry much got him started on it on my opinion. This is what I need help with...We are going to go down there in a couple days...he has been clean for like a year or more...I don't know how to approach it if you know we get down there he meets his friends and cry and moarn over my so's moms death and then he does the stuff again...I dont know what to do and how to approach it...I'm so scared I dont want to go through this again. We have our son our own house, car. We are struggling to stay alive right now but managing. Before we were loving I'm their parents coach rich infested house I'm upset about his mother and care about his morning but I just dont know what to do about this becauss I know its going to be tempting. please I need your guys advice please............