what should i do??????

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My bf for 8 years cheated on me two years ago and now we just found out she was pregnant. Were in the process of getting a paternity test. His begging me to stay. i dont know what to do......

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I'm going to say this. Whatever you decide do it for you not anyone else because at the end of the day you're the one who has to live with that decision. I was always the one who was quick to say no if that was me I'd do this, that, and the third until I was put into a situation and was stuck. I will say take a break. Like a week or two to wrap your head around it and decide what's best for YOU. Believe me I know all to well what you're going thru. Good luck sweetie everything will work out for the best

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I personally wouldn't stay, the cheating part would've hurt me & pissed me off enough , to add that the baby may be his would make it even harder for me & I'd just have to leave.

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We been together for 8 years and i never got pregnant and he wants kids. Maybe its a sign that i cant have kids.

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Wait for the results. If it's not his, then you can get over this bump pretty easily since it's been 2 years since the discretion. If it is his, you have to decide if you are okay with dealing with the other woman, having him keep ties with her, having him pay child support for his child which is less money for the both of you if you plan on buying a house, car, etc. It's a sacrifice and responsibility that he will have no choice but to handle. You are in a position to decide whether or not you are ready and willing to be a part of that. I hope you make a decision that is right for you

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No he does. It was a one night thing with her. She never told him cause she wasnt sure. She still not sure if its his.

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I wouldn't stay , that is a very long time of cheating he practically has another their life with this girl .. crazy . I can't believe this 8 years have gone to waste

what should i do??????

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