Fed is best do not let people bully you about breastfeeding my first baby I had a lot of trouble in the hospital and felt like the nursing staff was putting to much pressure on breastfeeding My nipples were cracked and bleeding and my daughter was fusssy i thought I had postpartum depression bc of it!! Once I made the decision to pump and bottle feed until my milk came in I felt so much better and my baby girl was full and happy!! At home it was more relaxed and I was able to breastfeed but fed is best!! Don't let anyone make you feel inferior bc you decide to formula feed!! I'm 37w with my second and my friend just had her baby and is very frustrated with the breastfeeding process her milk has not come in and the staff is making her feel like formula is poison so sad 😭