We got married in 2016 got pregnant right away and now we have an 8month old daughter. After we got married I moved to where he lived and since it was in the spring I got a job substituting at a local school. Over that summer we moved back to my hometown to have family support. My husband and I discussed me working and I wanted to be a stay at home mom. We agreed that I could stay home because working as a teacher 90% of my take home pay would be going right to day care. Now that our girl is 8 month old I feel my husband really hates that he works and I stay home. He doesn't understand how hard it can be staying home all day. I know his job is hard too but I don't complain that he works all day. He expects the house to be clean and always have a hot meal ready when he gets home. He gets so mad if I spend any money even when it's something necessary for the baby. We discussed everything before baby was born and now it's clear he didn't really want to agree to it. He is telling me I have to do things we didn't agree too. He thinks it's funny to joke in front of family and friends that I need help finding a job or he says we can do "that" (whatever it is) when I get a job. He is always complaining about money and I have no way to fix it.