Does anyone else's husband get upset?!?

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Ok I know I can't be the only one that has trouble climaxing! My husband gets so upset when I can't climax. I know he tries so hard sometimes to get me there but it just doesn't happen sometimes. I don't know if it's a blow to his ego or what. I try to tell him that I still enjoy it even though I don't finish but it like he doesn't believe me. I don't know how to easy his mind and I don't want to fake it so what should I do?

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my husband always tries to make me get off before we even go full blown except for quickies, if he makes it but I don't, he always seems down, I just smile and say "raincheck, you owe me" best believe next time, I make it too. good luck

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I have the same problem. I love my hubby so much, if I never orgasmed again it wouldn't make a difference!! But, I am very hard to please... I can't even do it for myself 😂 But I still love sex even when I can't climax. My husband seems so sad when he finishes and I don't... he even says things like "I'm so inadequate" or "I'm not good enough". 🙁 it bums me out because he does try and I know he loves me so much!!! I don't know what advice to give you but just letting you know you're not the only one!

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My husband also gets bummed when I don't orgasm from sex. He used to get very upset but what we started making sure I got off during foreplay. That way if I didn't from the sex he didn't feel as bad; if I did it was a bonus for both of us!

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Vibrator! I don't climax at all if I'm not using a vibrator at the same time!

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My husband uses a vibrator on me first so it stimulates me. Then when I can feel the intensity of the orgasm, he stops using it and we have really nice sex. I usually orgasm when he orgasms. It's a nice compromise.

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we use clitoral stimulation with a vibrator and like another said when I  get close we have sex and have a nice climax together.

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We have a lot of sex. I don't climax every time, but I do often. My husband doesn't think it's a blow to his ego when I don't get there. We have 3 kids and I have a career. If my mind is elsewhere, I'm not getting all the way. I'm a multitasker! Lol - a gift and a fault. No matter, we still have a great sex life and enjoy our time together. I do also climax often enough that he knows I'm satisfied. I simply don't need it every time. Doesn't mean I enjoy our sexual time less, not even close.

Does anyone else's husband get upset?!?

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