Am I wrong for wanting to make my own money. I don't want my boyfriend to take care of me, he's been to strict, aggressive and controllive. I work for him and I no longer want to, I'm not being paid or anything. I need my own money, I don't want his money, it's not mine and he'll continue to hold it over my head. Been doing this with him for 3 years, but not a dime or anything. I don't want this anymore, I want to be independent and not depend on him fort anything. Shucks, I don't depend on him now, he doesn't help pay for anything, I pay everything in my own. I'm trying to gind another job, but I'm not having any luck right now, but I'm still trying and not being picky about anything. Any suggestions? - he doesn't want me to get another job and I have spoken too him about it