ok. I need some vent time! my friend with limited benefits won't have sex with me!!!! we've had sex only one time. We've done other things since then, but we haven't had sexual intercourse since that time. it's driving me crazy! tonight we were fooling round and things started getting pretty hot and heavy and when I asked him if he had brought a condom, he said "no, we're not there yet". I thought he was just saying he wasn't ready to put it on yet. NO. he meant we weren't having sex. instead I gave him oral sex and when it came to my turn, he touched me for like 8 minutes!!!! it's starting to annoy me! and now I feel like a total douchebag. I just don't know how long he's expecting me to be cool with NOT having an orgasm after he gets me all hot and bothered 😠😠😠