The whole world thinks we are actively trying to conceive, even my doctors, and we blame inability on my PCOS (which is real), but no one has any idea that it's EXTREMELY difficult to conceive when your spouse is only interested in sex two to four times a month. So you try to force at least two in during your fertile window and pray for a miracle, and he doesn't understand why it isn't enough. And you take Clomid to increase chances. And you cut out dairy. And you start to think maybe its you and they just aren't attracted. And you want so badly to give your child a sibling (and they claim to want it to). And you just want to scream because this isn't what you envisioned.....help!!! 😫