me and my partner have been friends for seven years and through all that time he always stayed by me no matter what through thick and thin. I found it hard to talk to him a cus of my past abusive relationship but I let him in and told him I when something was wrong a ok it'd take me longer like a day but I told him lol.since together not so much him trying to make things work and he can't cope with arguements. we were TTC and he's now acting like a child. ignoring me and telling me he's too busy to deal with it and that I deserve to be taught a lesson......wow I got to say I didn't realise it was going to turn out like this.I don't think I'm pregnant being TTC for three months and I suppose I should be relieved im not but it's hurting truth be told. how can a guy act like that towards someone he's supposedly wanted to be with for 7 years 😭 I have three kids already I took chance with being with him again he promised we would try sort it out. I'm regretting it now, he knows the longer he gives me the silent treatment he will lose me I am damaged I can't deal with half assed relationships. if he wants to sort it then sort it but if not I let go out of fear. silent treatment is a form of abuse and he's done it before told me couldn't be fucked with me. why do men think it's about aggression and defending themselves. all I said was I have little friends and I'm feeling crap and then found out on his Facebook he wanted to go away on tour with the army 'in a heartbeat' how would he feel if I said that when we were ttc know what I mean. woke up empty today. he's not going to try work it out I know I've lost him already. got my neice over today and my three kids to look after motivation is so low. after so much shit in my life why am I here

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