The last time I went to visit my boyfriend we tried to have sex, and frankly enough it was my first time doing almost everything we did- so I was sore during and definitely afterwards. We used a TON of lube and we didnt even really have sex, because I made him stop (it hurt so bad). I have a hunch hes going to want to have sex during my next visit (tomorrow) and I KNOW its still going to hurt like hell- How do I handle or even get rid of the pain without ruining the moment?