Holding/kissing my newborn

Im a FTM due August 5th and all of a sudden I have terrible anxiety about the thought of bringing my daughter out for the first few weeks at least. To church mainly but also to the store, and around friends and family. At church where I know people are going to want to hold her and kiss on her - I just don't want that. And I'm not the one to openly tell someone no because I feel thats rude. I always thought people that waited weeks to bring their baby out and were very protective about who touched and held them were odd - but now here I am!😭😭😭😭